Marriage Relationship: Proven Tips to Make Your Marriage Work

The institution of marriage is sacred, special, unique and forever. This is a relationship that makes two individual unite physically and mentally forever.

They share everything from love to money, relationships to thoughts, views to materialistic things and bed with each other. Such is the power of this relationship. However, there are times when things go wrong, quarrels take place, differences creep in and the relationship suffers a setback.

Just as many other relationships we share in our lives, marriage requires time, care, love and constant revival.

No relationship can be taken for granted and marriage is no exception. If you want to remain happily married forever, then you need to make efforts towards your goal. These efforts must come from you and your partner.

Here are some simple yet proven ways to make your marriage work:

* Realistic:

When dating, you must have never realized that marriage is a different game altogether. Couples usually think that marriage is similar to a dating relationship wherein they would enjoy many candlelight dinners, romantic getaways and much more fun together.

A woman thinks that her husband will always remain her boyfriend and turn up with flowers, chocolates and romantic lines each time he comes back from the office. There is nothing wrong with this kind of an arrangement.

However, this is not possible as a permanent thing. You cannot expect these gestures from your husband/wife every day.

You may get bored if this happens daily. Living in a fantasy land may prove harmful for your relationship.

* Do not take the relationship for granted:

Being realistic does not mean that you start taking the relationship for granted. Strictly avoid taking each other for granted.

Once you start taking each other for granted, you start killing your relationship. Find opportunity to tell how much love you have for each other. Plan weekly outings together. Remember special occasions and spend time with each other. Go for candlelight dinners and blurt out ‘I love you’ as often as possible.

* Communicate:

Do not allow communication gap to creep in to your marriage. This may wreck it forever. When you do not speak your heart out to your partner, many negative feelings such as hatred and anger develop. This is not good for your relationship.

Whenever you feel that something bad is happening to you or you are unhappy about your partner’s behavior, just take it over.

Some additional tips:

* Express your point whenever possible.

* Never sleep over a fight. Try to sort out the problem as soon as possible. This will let you sort out all the differences.

* Consider your partner as an integral part of your life

* Trust your partner

* Plan financial goals together

* Avoid keeping secrets

* Spend quality time together

* Share responsibilities

* Stay in touch when away from each other

* Surprise each other on special occasions and without occasions

* Complement each other

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