Love Your Child? Show that You Love
Do you love your child? You must be shocked at this question. You must be thinking that this is an absurd question because parents cannot live without loving their children. However this may be a little difficult for your child to understand.
This is because you do not waste a minute to vent out your anger to them but you find it extremely difficult to appreciate them or telling them how much you love them.
This is the reason that children are often unable to guess how much love you hold in your heart for them.
Loving your child is not enough for their growth and development. You need to let them know how much you love them.
Child development and psychology recommend physical touch for healthy growth of a child. Similarly, you are encouraging healthy mental and physical growth of your child via displaying your love as frequently as possible.
The key is to tell your child how much you love him. This is very similar to the way in which you convey your feelings to others.
Try doing this. Your child will love it. If you have no clue about how to say “I love you” to your child then here are some tips to help you in this regard.
* Tip One:
Focus on approaching your child directly no matter what. This will let them k now how you feel. Just tell your child “I love you, Princess. You make me feel complete”.
Your child will understand how you feel about him and how important he/she is in your life. You cannot develop a strong, healthy bond with your child unless you tell him how important he is to you.
* Tip Two:
Include good amount of discipline in your parenting technique. This does not mean that you start tormenting your child in to something he does not want to.
Things should be restricted. Punish them where they go wrong but make sure that the degree of punishment is not severe. Severe punishments can make your child get scared. This will also affect their overall personality in a negative way.
* Tip Three:
Kissing and hugging your child is important. It is a way to tell them that you care. This way, you would also tell them that you are there to help and support them whenever they need you.
* Tip Four:
Reward and appreciate them. Giving things they want or gifts on a special occasion is very important. This will inspire them to do good things in life.
* Tip Five:
Keep your child healthy via feeding him/her with healthy, nutritious and well balance food. This will show how much you care and keep the child in a healthy state too.
Following the tips stated above will help you keep your child in a healthy and happy state always. Most importantly, it will show him/her how much you care.
Once the child knows about his/her importance in your life, there will be no stopping for him/her developing in to a genuine and successful human being.
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