I do not know if for reasons strictly related to society (a judicial society and reluctant to change) or because of a family instinct, but many women want to be married and if that does not happen quickly, they suffer as if nothing would no longer worth their smile.




There are some women to whom the marital status gives them such a great satisfaction that they make from this desire a real goal, a goal becoming a real burden.

Because, without realizing it, they seek ephemeral happiness : it's like you want as many obsessive shoes, no matter if they are ugly, do not fit you or not suit you, you not even wear them, but you buy them.

Destination is one that counts, and the journey becomes unbearably long.


What does it matter who you meet along the way, what makes you happy and what memories you make, you have to turn into Mrs. X, married.

As if getting married would be a career, a job...

         

There are those for whom marriage is the safety of their love, the guarantor of the dreamed conservation of steadiness with the man she loves.


At least it is a variant easier to digest than insecurity or lack of single for life insurance. And there are many women who, plastically saying, keep their men with a marriage certificate or by giving birth to a child into (or at least live with the belief that such an attitude would make a man to remain).

And there are women whose ideal life translates into "couple", rather than "family" for whom they would pay the loneliness and any other compromises.

It's their natural predisposition to obtain the blessing of being married.


It is the feminine fulfillment as if being married is more important than loving and happy living next to a person you're complete.

It's a false duty to themselves and to others, is pride, fear of loneliness, fear of failure, hypocrisy, but not love.


Every woman dreams from time to time at the day and when they become brides, wives and mothers, but many relate to this dream without necessarily include feelings to your partner, love towards children.


Ultimately, what matters, what lasts and what helps you build the love.

We often hear: 

"I have to get married",

"the time passes by me",

"All women of my age are married and I do not, what's wrong with me?

"I need a family where to find my footing and balance."

I know how it feels to fall prey to these latest false beliefs that will make life perfect tray.


Towards marriage, I never born passions, but to the idea of ​​family - yes.


It turns into obsession and how-let alone one resulted in a marriage most likely will become monotonous and sad, in which you will fulfill your duty.

I am not against marriage at all, but I am very vocal when involving for any reason, except those related to love, trust, and familiarity.

And I always embraced the principles of "Better single and unhappy than married and miserable." But for those for whom marriage is indispensable, unhappiness is only a slight payment.


So, analyze very good, before getting the decision or before being desperate that all your friends took the step.


Marriage should be for life.

Of course, no marriage is perfect and it has its difficulties, as we talk about a lifetime, at least supposedly, relationship, but marrying only for the status' sake will lead to a divorce or to an unhappy for life sentence.
 


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