These secrets that I am going to reveal to you are not conventional at all, because I believe in the dynamism of the relationships.

Only because you got used to make some things in a certain way doesn't necessarily mean that they are good.

Remember how much your life improved when you gave up to the incommode jeans with low waist, when you started dating with real men or when you surfed the net in the middle of the city, from your cell phone.

The experts in relationships claim that if you break the next 7 rules in love, things will change in good!



The old rule: don't be such jealous
Many women consider that they are being too hysterical, unsecure and without personality if they manifest their jealousy.

This way, when a woman is flirting with the partner, many women decide to hide their eyes and to prove how calm and self-secure they are.


The new rule: Play a bit the possessive woman
An indifferent attitude can harm the life couple because the total lack of jealousy can be perceived by your partner as a sign that you don't involve too much in your relationship.

Of course, you don't have to transform in a tiger when he is in contact with a woman, but it's ok to point some things that get on your nerves - when a friend flirts with him or when he mention obsessively a colleague from work.

This way, by liberating the demon from you- in a moderate way- you flatter him and you make him understand that losing him bothers you. Moreover, it proves a desire of protecting your relationship!


The old rule: Don't go nervous to bed
You are tempted to talk, talk and talk again when tension is in the air and this because you want to see the problem solved.


The new rule: Sleep on it
The arguments - when things are still hot - can lead to losing your heads.

If you force the things, at some point you start talking without thinking and the result can be calamitous.

On the other hand, if you analyze the problem from all the perspectives you can sort the important things and, delaying the discussion, it will calm you, so that you will become more rational when you will express yourself.


The old rule: Always flatter him in bed
Probably, you spend lot of time thinking about original ways of impressing him in bed.

It is nothing wrong with it, but you are exposed to a serious danger: you focus too much on pleasing him, even with the price of your pleasure!


The new rule: be more selfish in bed
Men are proud with the fact that they are capable of turning women's heads.

But, if he has clues that you are not ecstatic about his erotic maneuvers, his sexual pride will be touched. If you are not satisfied, you will be both upset, in the end.

The solution is very simple: even for the shiest girls: whine when he does something that you like and increase the intensity and volume when he reaches to the hot spots. He will know to make the difference in future.


The old rule: you both must have the same activity
Some couples think that having the same activity and being all the time tête-à-tête means that the interest in each other is active.

Wrong!


The new rule: the time you spent with yourself strengthen the relationship
If you like to go to jogging and this is also his favorite activity - very well, but forcing yourself to be a part of all his actions is not a good idea.

Being non-stop a couple creates a dynamism rather forced. Moreover, you will both be more interested in each other if you have separate activities. When you follow your own interests you will start appreciating more the time spent together.


The old rule: be Miss Independent
By insisting in caring your luggage and to take your car in service and so on, you will confirm that you are a strong and modern woman who can always count on herself.

But, in fact…


The new rule: You are my "Superman"!
Men are clearly attracted to independent woman, but if you are willing to be counting only on you, he will start feeling useless.

You should take care of his pride and to praise him for the things he does, no matter if he cooks or changes your bulb.

Don't forget that, traditionally, the man is the one that offers protection and help. Moreover, they are programmed to be in action. Actually, this is the way he shows his love for you. 


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