Handling Mama’s Boy

It is really hard to handle a mama’s boy, especially if he is your boyfriend or husband. Women find it extremely tough to handle a boy who is completely influenced by his mother.

He wants to see a mother in every woman he dates or meets you would come to known that your boyfriend is a mama’s boy if his life is completely controlled by his mother. He obeys his mother no matter what. He shares everything with his mother and compares you with his mother all the time.

So what to do? How can you handle this? Do not worry. There is a solution to everything.

Here are some tips you can use when handling a mama’s boy:

* Tip 1: Stop reacting:

A mama’s boy would always expect reaction from you that ends up with a long discussion each time he talks about his mother. Your role here should be to stop reacting. When he talks about his mother, just smile and allow him to talk.

Do not thwart his speech or draw it further. Just smile and switch over to another topic once he has finished. This will ultimately make him realize that you do not have any problem with his mother or him getting close to his mother. This habit of dragging his mother to every meeting with you will gradually cease.

* He compares you with his mother:

This is a tough one to handle but you must do it with a heart of steel. So you made his favorite dish and he says “Oh! My mom does this better than you”. This would surely break your heart.

However, raving and ranting in front of him would be of no use at all. Instead try this. “I know sweetheart. I am dying to learn to cook this dish from the expert”.

Convince your man that you want to learn this dish from his mother as nothing feels better for you than keeping him happy. This will impress him hard and tell him how much you love him.

* He says he is proud of his mother:

Do not react in a negative way to this. Instead you can say that you are grateful to his mother to have given birth to a wonderful person like him. You are truly blessed. You would be surprised to see the sparkle in his eyes.

* Do things that his mother cannot do for him:

Well, this is where you have an upper hand. Give your man a sensual massage that would take the stress away from his life. Plan romantic and intimate nights with your partner. Make his birthdays, promotions and other such occasions really special for him. He would fall slave to you.

Handling mama’s boy may seem to be a hard task for you. However, following the tips stated above will help you conquer all hurdles successfully.

Happy taming a mama’s boy in to your man!

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